As loved ones age, families are often faced with a critical question: Is it better to arrange for home care, or should they transition into a nursing home? Both options aim to ensure safety and support, but the experiences they provide are very different. The choice can significantly impact emotional well-being, autonomy, social connection, and overall happiness.

This guide explores 10 practical strategies to help families introduce home care without resistance, while keeping dignity, choice, and emotional well-being front and center.

Why Aging at Home Matters More Than Ever

For many older adults, there’s no place like home. According to national surveys, more than 90% of people over the age of 65 say they would prefer to age in place—to remain in their own home for as long as possible rather than moving to an assisted living facility or nursing home.

Holidays offer opportunities for us to spend lengthier periods of time with aging parents and loved ones — sometimes long enough to observe changes in habits or lifestyle that give rise to concerns about their health or well-being, especially when they live on their own.

When families start considering long-term care options for their loved ones, one of the first questions is often: “How much does it cost?” The reality, however, is more complicated. The decision between home care and assisted living is not only about money—it’s about lifestyle, independence, environment, and the type of support needed.

Why Aging in Place Matters

Over 90% of older adults say they prefer to age in place—that is, remain in the comfort of their own home instead of moving to a facility. The reasons are clear: home represents familiarity, independence, and dignity. Yet, safely aging in place requires thoughtful planning, the right kind of home care services.